I’ve been mulling over that line of the old carol: ‘The hopes and fears of all the years are met in Thee tonight’.
What did that mean for Jospeh and Mary? What did it mean for the people of Israel? What does it mean for us today?
1. What were Mary and Joseph’s hopes and fears?
Mary and Jospeh’s hopes were probably pretty normal for a young couple from Nazareth at that time: they hoped to marry, raise a family, have enough from Jospeh’s carpentry business to live on. Their hopes were normal, natural – but so much smaller than the plans God had for them.
Suddenly, their plan A becomes plan B as Mary announces her pregnancy and Jospeh has it in mind to divorce her quietly, to spare her the shame which would no doubt come to her as an unmarried pregnant girl in that place at that time.
Now what were their hopes? They hoped that people would believe their story – unbelievable though it was.
And did they hope that their baby Jesus would deliver his people, in the way that so many did – that he would save them from the oppression of Rome?
What were their fears? That Mary would be stoned to death. Perhaps that Jospeh would be punished as well.
But God crashes into the scene with his plan – Mary will give birth to the Messiah. This was SO much bigger than their plans had been! Abnormal, unnatural – and so much bigger!
They must have feared that they would be ostracised, shamed, isolated.
Did they fear that their baby Jesus would be misunderstood? Did they catch a glimpse of what was ahead for him? Isaiah 53:3 tells us this:
He was despised and rejected by mankind,
a man of suffering, and familiar with pain.
Like one from whom people hide their faces
he was despised, and we held him in low esteem.
Did Mary and Jospeh understand this? Did they know this prophecy was about their baby boy?
So what kind of a baby were Mary and Joseph expecting?
An angel had appeared to Mary and had told her that the Holy Spirit would come upon her and she would give birth to ‘the Son of God’. Joseph had been told the same thing by an angel in a dream. But what did they understand by that? We are told more than once that ‘Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart’ Luke 2:19. And when they brought their baby to the temple, Simeon said to Mary: “a sword will pierce your own soul too.” (Luke 2). Joseph and Mary must have known that suffering was part of the journey – for their baby boy and for them.
2. What about the people of Israel? What were their hopes and fears?
The coming of Jesus had first been promised to Adam and Eve in Genesis 3:15.
His birth—of a virgin in the city of David—had been foretold by prophets centuries before. Micah 5:2 says this:
“But you, Bethlehem Ephrathah,
though you are small among the clans of Judah,
out of you will come for me
one who will be ruler over Israel,
whose origins are from of old,
from ancient times.”
Israel lived under the oppression of the Romans and the people were waiting for the Messiah to come and deliver them. The people lived in fear. Remember when the resurrected Jesus appeared to the two confused disciples on the way to Emmaus and they explained that Jesus had died. They said “we had hoped that he was the one who was going to redeem Israel.” (Luke 24:21)
So what kind of a Messiah were the people of Israel expecting?
Some were expecting a deliverer from Rome.
Others – like Simeon and Anna – were expecting so much more than that – they were expecting the promised Messiah, the one who would deliver Israel from their sin.
When Simeon saw the baby with Joseph and Mary in the temple, he said this:
“Lord, now you are letting your servant depart in peace,
according to your word;
for my eyes have seen your salvation
that you have prepared in the presence of all peoples,
a light for revelation to the Gentiles,
and for glory to your people Israel.” Luke 2:29-32
And Anna knew too – we read this in Luke 2:38:
And coming up at that very hour she began to give thanks to God and to speak of him to all who were waiting for the redemption of Jerusalem.
3. What about us? What are our hopes and fears?
What are you hoping for? What are your greatest longings?
What are you afraid of? What are your greatest fears?
If our hopes and fears really are met in Jesus, what does that mean for us today?
Maybe we are hoping for a Saviour who will answer all our prayers the way we want – like a magic genie.
Maybe we are afraid that God is disappointed with us and we never quite measure up to his expectations of us.
Maybe we are hoping for a benevolent God who will overlook all our sin and tell us everything is OK.
Maybe we are afraid that the good news of the gospel is just too good to be true – maybe it’s true for everyone else but not for us.
Maybe we hope for a Saviour of our sin but we don’t really hope for a friend who cares about our hopes and fears.
As we approach Christmas, we expect to celebrate the coming of Jesus, the Saviour of the world.
So what kind of a Saviour are we expecting?
He is a Saviour who will answer all our prayers – but not always the way we want or expect. He did so much more for Mary and Joseph!
He is a Saviour who is angry about our sin but who loves us extravagantly, unconditionally and forever. His regard towards us is always one of love. God did so much more than express anger at our sin. Jesus took the anger of God upon himself, so that we would not bear the anger of God – only his love.
The good news of the gospel is so much better than we can imagine. There is nothing we can do that will make him love us more and there is nothing we can do that will make him love us less!
And he is the Saviour of the world – but he is also the friend who cares about all of our hopes and fears.
Our hopes and fears really do meet in Jesus. That is the good news of Christmas. Not just that Jesus came to save us from our sin, but also that he came to deliver us from our worst fears and to give us so much more than our best hopes.
So as we wait in this time of Advent, he invites us to come to him with our longings, our hopes, our desires, those we have often expressed and those we have never expressed.
He also invites us to come to him with our fears, those which have haunted us for years and those which are so new we have hardly yet recognised them.
He knows us intimately. He knows all of our hopes and he knows all of our fears. And he desperately wants to carry them all for us. The hopes and fears of all the years are met in him today.
So come to him, bring your hopes, bring your fears. Name them to him. He is not the baby Jesus lying in a manger, He is the Jesus who went from the cradle to the cross, so that he could take our sins and our sorrows. He came to deliver us from our worst fears and to give us so much more than our best hopes.